he is back and we have moved to Alaska. My long and awful year is finally behind me and his year long deployment has finally ended. We are now "settled" at our new base in Alaska. Hopefully, I will have more time to come in here and post. I have missed all of your guys wisdom and support.
we will be here for 3 years minimum maybe 4. It is also possible we will retire up here but that is up in the air for now.