Glad you finally have some answers....for some of the issues going on at least.
Although our DD hasn't been formally given those psycho-ed tests yet, we know from OT that she has some similar issues that are being addressed in occupational therapy and we're in the process of getting our insurance to pay for the rest (but we have to get the school district to say whether they'll test her or not...).
Anyway, like you, I just want to know "exactly" what the issues are so we can address them.
You might check out
www.diannecraft.com. She's highly recommended by HSLDA and others and has some things you can work on at home. I have her Brain Integration Therapy manual and am reviewing it now to implement after we get DD tested (either from the school dist or privately....only going thru the school to get our insurance to continue to cover the OT bill).
She has some great things for processing delays.
Rhonda